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Mindful Change: The Key to Successful Influence

by JD

image“Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.” — Desmond Tutu

Why do many leadership efforts and organizational change initiatives fail?

Because too many change efforts fail to take into account the physiology of resistance.

Luckily, there are some new insights that can help shape new management practices. David Rock and Jeffrey Schwartz summarize some counter-intuitive conclusions in their article, “The Neuroscience of Leadership”, in strategy+business magazine.

Breakthroughs in Cognitive Science

Rock and Schwartz write the following:

“Managers who understand the recent breakthroughs in cognitive science can lead and influence mindful change: organizational transformation that takes into account the physiological nature of the brain, and the ways in which it predisposes people to resist some forms of leadership and accept others.

This does not imply that management – of change or anything else – is a science. There is a great deal of art and craft in it. But several conclusions about organizational change can be drawn that make the art and craft far more effective.

These conclusions would have been considered counterintuitive or downright wrong only a few years ago.”

The Counterintuitive Conclusions of Change and Resistance

Rock and Schwartz identify the following conclusions:

  1. Change is pain. Organizational change is unexpectedly difficult because it provokes sensations of physiological discomfort. (See Working Memory vs. Routine Activity)
  2. Behaviorism doesn’t work. Change efforts based on incentive and threat (the carrot and the stick) rarely succeed in the long run.
  3. Humanism is overrated. In practice, the conventional empathic approach of connection and persuasion doesn’t sufficiently engage people.  In theory, the person-centered approach might be an effective solution but there is rarely time to go through this process with employees and guarantee that it will produce the desired results.
  4. Focus is power. The act of paying attention creates chemical and physical changes in the brain.
  5. Expectation shapes reality. People’s preconceptions have a significant impact on what they perceive.
  6. Attention shapes identity. Repeated, purposeful, and focused attention can lead to long-lasting personal evolution.

Resistance isn’t futile.  It’s human nature.

Key Take Aways

Here are my key take aways:

  • Lead a horse to water.  The most meaningful changes come from within.   It’s more effective and efficient to help others come to their own insights.
  • Ask solution-focused questions.  Stay solution-focused rather than dwelling on problems.  See Solution-Focused Questions and Asking Better Questions.
  • See the end in mind.  Focus conscious attention on the improved result.  See How To Paint a Future Picture and Step Into Your Future.
  • Measure the approach, not just results.  You get what you measure.  More importantly, you pay attention to what you measure.  Just paying attention to something can open up opportunities for improvement.

I’m not actually surprised by the conclusions.  I see these conclusions show up in my day to day.

Category: Influence, Intellectual-Horsepower, Leadership, Mind, Thinking SkillsTag: Effectiveness, Influence, Leadership

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